- Remember what their favorite things are – sports, snacks, restaurants, movies, games, friends, etc.
- When they are stressed, stay next to them. If you notice that something is aggravating them, inquire and see if they want to open up about it.
- Let them tell you about the great workout they had.
- Choose a show or movie that they want to watch and watch it together – even if it isn’t your cup of tea
- Get back to each other quickly when you text one another. Sometimes, you’re busy but at least send a note to say you got the message.
- Have a phone free zone each night and use that time to talk.
- If you haven’t had a chance to go on a real date in a while, plan one out that you’ll both enjoy.
- Never forget to appreciate each other for the small things – like doing the laundry or refilling the toilet paper.
- Randomly call or text each other during lunch simply to say “hello”.
- When you’ve decided to stay keep a budget – stick with it. Check with the other if you need to go off budget.
- Troll his/her Amazon “wish list” and surprise them with a gift.
- When they have a concern for a friend or family member, be sympathetic to it.
- Never allow time with your friends or co-workers take priority over you time with each other and the family.
- Pay attention to the important events taking place in each other’s lives and be sure to inquire about them.
- When the other is talking, keep eye contact.
- Respond to each other when you speak – do not zone out.
- Be inquisitive with each other – ask questions like you did when you first started dating.
- When you sense that one is nervous, go and comfort them.
- Give a laugh or at least a smile when they are being funny.
- Each time your spouse enters and exits, smile. Say hello and give each other a greeting and a kiss.
- When they are finished with a project in the house, acknowledge it.
- Be intentional in making time for intimacy.
- Be aware of spending too much time on your devices when you’re in each other’s presence.
- Clean the car for each other.
- If the tank is low, fill up the gas before he/she takes it next.
