You need a wedding planner
Weddings can be a simple affair or it can be a great undertaking. If your wedding falls into the later category, then for the sake of your sanity, please consider hiring a professional wedding planner / coordinator. Since it will be one of the most memorable days of your life, you will want to remember enjoying your time rather than working the whole time.
You'll also want someone who has the following qualities:
Understands your needs
Has a great relationship with your vendors
When I think of a wedding planner with these qualities, I think of Kelly Sugano of "A Perfect Day". So consider hiring a professional to take your stress away. You can check out Kelly's website at: